Friday, March 23, 2012

Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus.


I was in the midst of reading a book titled “Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus”, The classic Guide of Understanding Opposite Sex” by John Gray Phd. ….



Something different on how should a men and women, should behave and understand the differences between them. Some example in the books is very much match with the daily chorus in my house, which of cause wrong. After go thru the book, so far 4 chapter, I personally feel that I’ve been doing wrong since day 1 we meet each other. Reading the book is a good turning point for me, I’ve learn a lot especially on how to listen emphatically, which is very much the key for any relationship.





















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Friday, March 9, 2012

Delhi - Kasi - Agra - Jaipur Trip

It’s been some time, since my last update. As usual busy with work and also busy for my Kasi trip arrangement. The trip is from 30th Jan to 6th Feb. To make it a real adventure we travel by our own, meaning no tour guide or agents whatsoever from Malaysia. I booked most of the hotel by referring to Tripadvisor, and ~ 90% of the comment is true. A big thanks for Tripadvsor.


The main intend for the trip is to do final prayers for my beloved ones, my elder son & mother-in-law at Kasi , or Gangga river. We understand why the city of Kasi is called ancient city…. Such a spectacular view of the river, the engine sound of boat , morning sun , the climate , people’s chanting, praying and of course the local peoples. We spent 3 days there …….


A view from our hotel Balcony

My beautiful wife...

Sadhu's at Kasi ...

Night boat travelling at Gangga

Beautiful view of sunrise from hotel balcony

Morning boat travelling at Gangga

View from the Gangga river banks ( Ghat's )

Another fantastic view of the Ghats

Hotel Ganpati Guest House - Superb hotel ...
Manikanda Ghat - Burning Ghat

Another burning ghat - look at the photo carefully ... see the bruning leg ?

Gangga bath - bath in the holly river

Feeding the bird at Gangga

The famous Gangga evening pooja ...

The arrangement also consists of visiting the golden triangle of India. Delhi -> Agra -> Jaipur. In between manage to arrange a day trip to Mathura, birth place of Lord Krishna. Its ~ 1.5hrs drive from Agra.

Taj Mahal

Wife and her sister

Another angle of the Taj mahal

Wife's siblings

Me of course !

Wife and river Yamuna behind Taj Mahal


The fun part is the actual adventure we experience thru out the journey. Below is the list of unforgotten events happens.



1) Caught by the security at Varanasi airport suspect of terrorist.

Story – My wife’s brother bag is spoiled, so decided to buy a bag at Varanasi on the way to airport for departure to Delhi. At the airport change the bag and with good intention leave it at the door side inside airport so that other can use if they want. Than went to check in counter for check-in. Not even 10 min, a group of army with AK47 in their hand stop us and ask if the bag was ours, we admit and they

bring me along to open the bag. To my surprise, there are 2 bomb squad ready with all the tools waiting for me. After I open the bag and show to them it was empty, they warn me seriously for leaving the

bag there. Just miss ..or else sit in jail….



2) Travel without a train ticket from Mathura to Agra

Story - We suppose to get down from the train at Mathura station so that the guide will take us for tour and by road to Agra. After getting a free meal on board we slowly going to get down at station

because the train just stop. Just in 2 minutes the train start to move again. After checking the train stop only for 2 minutes at Mathura, so we are travelling without a ticket to Agra, the TTR told us to get

down at Agra fort station and pay the penalty or 6 month jail. At the entry another officer checking the ticket of the passenger before exit and it’s a bit crowd , we took the opportunity to skip the officer and

exit the gate illegally. Just miss or 6 month jail ….or fine up to 1000 rupees per person.







3) Selling ticket in black to locals.

Story - we visit the Akbar tomb at Agra. Buy the 5 rupees ticket from the counter and during enter catch by the security because our passport in the porch bag. So need to buy 100 rupees ticket because we are foreigner. The ticket is not refundable. Decided to sell the ticket back to the local tourist and waited outside the entry until we sell all the 7 tickets. :)



4) Cheat the ticket seller of Taj Mahal

Story - Entry to Taj mahal is very expensive for foreigner ~ 800 rupees. So decided to take ticket of local, only 20 rupees. Goes to the counter and saying we are from Hyderabad, after a few up and down stare at us the officer give the tickets. So, we got the 20 rupees ticket. Same cheating goes at Jaipur and Agra fort. :)



5) Officer at airport stop us from boarding due to gate close.

Story - I remember seeing the flight time is at 2.40pm. So, decided to check in 1 hour early for boarding because I already print the boarding pass. At 1.25 pm goes to counter for checking because no airasia

counter is open, then the officer frankly say the gate is close and we cannot use this boarding pass for check-in. She say she cannot help. I fight back saying we already here 1 hour early since the flight at

2.40 pm. She ask to check my flight time again, to my surprise it’s at 2.10pm, so we already late by 15 min. She say she cannot help and ask us to refer to another officer if he can help. Lucky the officer is still around and he open the counter again for us and print the boarding pass, bring us to 1st class / business class for custom check , escort us and we all are running like crazy to the boarding gate ..I think 1km away from custom and board the flight, Actually the flight is waiting for us only ..... pheww......the stewards saw us and say ..welcome aboard !! with a big laugh

........... end of our trip.

Agra fort
Jaal Mahal - Jaipur


City Palace - Jaipur


Hawa Mahal - Jaipur ( 900 windows )


Agra Railway Station

Agra Fort ( inside )


Agra Fort

Shah Jahan private room

Overall, the trip was so excited and everyone traveled together enjoy the trip very much.

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

ASHR Kumon

Prady got her 3rd consecutive Kumon Advance Student Honor Roll (ASHR ), last week at Hotel Istana Kuala Lumpur.

What is ASHR anyway ? Ok .. let me explain , Kumon is a center where they teach Maths & English beyond the student learning grade. Ex. 5 year old child able to solve mathematics meant for std 1 or 2….

In order to qualify for the roll , the student must able to do maths 3 years beyond their school grade.

But this year , the honor list qualification become tighter where students must be 5 years beyond their school level to qualify for the roll. I’m very proud my daughter, she is in primary 1 and yet able to solve std 6 maths. Multiplication and division of fractions.


Her Graduation Stage



Family Photo after the ceremony


With her medal and certificate


Some of the ASHR receipient


With her Kumon center principal


Thursday, August 11, 2011

Our 3rd Business Trip to India.

Complete our 3rd trip to India last week. As usual the trip in meant for business but manages to allocate a day to visit Lord Venkateswara at Tirupathi. A gruesome 5 hrs waiting time for seeing HIM. What a “tharisanam” ….. Enjoying every second looking at HIM…. That’s why some locals not really care if they have to wait for whole day ….. but we don’t have such luxury time there ..so a 300 ruppes special queue yet took merely 6 hours ….


This round half of the purchase was made at Chennai Pothys , Saree's , kid dress & some Punjabi dress. Another half at another whole sale shop at Pondy Bazaar.

Both of us tired of non-stop purchase & select the best to suit our local Malaysian taste.

I will say this round the dress are more nicer and more northern style salwaar suits.


A typical south Indian breakfast set ….. idli & methu vadai … costing ~ 63 rupees …. Rm 3.50. Not cheap though , but that is normal , a liter of petrol is sold for Rm 4.90 !! .....



Sunday, May 1, 2011

A trip to Penang Hill

1st May, labour day holiday ...... bring my children's to visit a place which was kept secret till arrive there  .... Penang Hill ... a place for everyone to make a visit if they were at Penang. The hill was closed for the public for the renovation work for almost 2 years .... It was officially open for public last month .... and we thought want to visit the place after a 10 years gap !! ..... it was a nostalgic moment for me and my wife ... a place where we use to date before our marriage ..... but before that ... take our lunch ast Nasi Kandar Kapitan , their popular clay pot briyani and chicken tanddori ......
















As anticipated, the place is crowded with people, everyone want to experience the new hill train ans so do us .. queue ~ 40 min to reach the departure area ..... it was a new experience ... the train is very fast it only took us ~8 min to reach the hill-top .... it used to take ~ 20 to 30min with an exchange train at the mid-station. The new rail system pass the mid station and direct to hill-top.... kind of disappointment, where you really cannot enjoy the scenery ...... anyhow everyone enjoy the trip .....

Me, my darling, my son and my daughter on the canon .........


 

 

Monday, April 4, 2011

2nd Year Memorial Prayers

Last Saturday was my father’s 2nd year memorial prayers. It was done simple at home. Morning went to Sivan temple at Penang for a ‘moksha tibam’ and follows by a ‘archanai’. Noon, do a small prayers at home with a vegetarian food offering to my father.

“ We miss you dad..…… Its been 2 years since we loss you ….. but your smiling face still mingling in my head daily. Forgive me , If said anything wrong or act wrongly towards you…..and I know , you will never feel angry towards us …since it is not your nature…to hate us. You feed us …take care of us … until your last breathe …how can I repay you …… It was a memorable day when we spent the whole day alone , talking about your past experience in Terengganu oil rig, when I bring you to medical check-up at LWH hospital. I never realize, that will be the final sharing of your experience with me…..pls forgive me father ….. I love you dad …. “

Saturday, March 26, 2011

G-Hotel Family Re-union

G Hotel Penang organized its staff family day at Batu Feringgi beach recently, my name was given by Saanta and we went and join the gathering. The food is nice with BBQ as the main course. The mutton & chicken taste fantastic. As usual the rain spoiled the whole evening, Any how ..thanks to Saanta to invite us ....